Shall an epic Dom be an homophobe?

You can't be a top Dom if you are an homophobe. Harsh statement, right?!

I'll proceed to elaborate.

Sure, you can be great at it - destain and contempt can take you a long way. You can also fake it. Nothing wrong with being okay with someone being gay and play pretend you dislike him for your financial gain and the joy of your buddy. 

But, to reach the next level, there's no other way but to feel at ease enough around homo that you allow yourself to dig deep into their behaviour. So that you can understand how to pull the right triggers. Listen to them. 

How will a straight Alpha know how a queer behaves, if not by asking, listening, observing the animal in the wilderness?! 

That doesn't take from the endless joy that it is to witness a faggot humiliate himself, to extent not understood by the common civilian.

Even less, does it take from the rush that it is to watch your bank account grow bigger and bigger, as he behaves in ways that you have no other option but to share it with your friends, cause that's likely the biggest laugh a group of straight dudes can have together.


But, it's with a deep understanding of why they do so, that you can take them for the ride of their lives. And that, does not come with hate or rage. One might even claim it comes from a place of nurture.

That's what distinguishes a dominant man from the pure definition of a Dom - it's the understanding that, by knowing the game better, one can explore it to the full extent. And, with that, take everything one is entitled to. 

No limitations for lack of knowledge. No untaped territory. Simply, being on top of the game, above and beyond what's expectable from a real man. 

Aim to be a legend.

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